Trimble: Let go the chains of victimhood
By
Charles E. Trimble
Story Published:
Aug 18, 2008
Story Updated:
Sep 11, 2008
In this new social and political era, we will be challenged to solve the problems that plague our tribal communities, moving up from victims to victors; the one thing we must do is shed the chains of victimhood.
In the early 1970s, when I first took office as executive director of the National Congress of American Indians, there was much Indian legislation before Congress. In my testimony, I almost always led off with a litany of woes describing Indian country: the highest infant mortality; the lowest life expectancy; the highest unemployment; the lowest per capita income, and on and on. I did this to point out the devastation resulting from misguided and malicious Indian policy over many years. But I did it mostly to elicit pity or guilt, and to justify our requests for more appropriations, new programs and policy changes.
Eventually it got to me that I was almost bragging about it, like one might brag about the Pine Ridge reservation encompassing the poorest county in the U.S. So I dropped that pathetic preamble.
And today, 30 years later, it sometimes seems we treasure our victimhood. Through guilt and public embarrassment, we reason, pressure is kept on our federal trustee to do more for our people. In that sense, victimhood is working for us. But we must ask ourselves: what is victimhood doing to us?
Victimhood is a prison from which we must free ourselves if we mean for our children to go forward into a better future. The generally pathetic conditions in reservation communities cannot be simply shed or denied. Those conditions are real, and it’s going to take a persistent effort and a long time to remedy them. We must understand that our problems cannot be solved by anyone but ourselves, our tribal communities and leaders. And we must begin now. There is not much more time, and resources will dwindle when we are seen as hopeless.
We must first reject the notion that poverty and suffering on Indian reservations is inevitable for our people and our children – or that it is part of being a real Indian. There are Indians who say that an Indian person who makes a decent salary and enjoys material goods is not a real Indian; that the real Indians live in poverty on the reservations; that being poor is the price of being real Indian. But the notion that it is somehow noble to forego financial security, material goods, modern conveniences, and self care for the sake of some strange fantasy of Indianness is folly. From the beginning, our tribes were formed as survival units to collectively deal with want and suffering, not to perpetuate it.
But the inevitability of our plight and the nobility of our sacrifice are being instilled in the minds of many of our young people when we keep reliving it in our writings and our classrooms, in Indian studies courses in colleges and universities, especially.
The history of injustice and inhumanity to the tribes must be taught, for history not learned is history to be repeated. But the history must be taught with accuracy and dispassion, as history and not as indoctrination to give Native youth a sense of resentment or embitterment, and the white students a sense of guilt. And journalists have a responsibility as well to relate history with accuracy and truth.
In a recent column by Native journalist Jodi Rave, Sam Deloria is quoted extensively on the subject. His comments are hard-hitting and to the point. “College professors,” he says, “could help … if they stopped objectifying Indians and treating them as victims. Students deserve better.”
Deloria urges professors to quit perpetuating the theory that Indians are victims of multigenerational suffering because previous generations attended boarding schools: “Get over the trauma,” he said.
“These kids should not have to succeed and develop healthy attitudes in spite of those who are supposed to be teaching them in college,” he said. “We sell them short when we treat them as victims.”
In 1956, I attended a summer program in New York City called the Encampment for Citizenship. It was a month-long workshop that annually brought together youth from all across the country and from abroad for some special learning about humanity and rights.
At the encampment, we had an instructor named Matthew Ies Spetter, an intellectual man and a Jewish native of Holland. What stands out in my memory of him were the large jagged numbers tattooed down his arm. He was apparently very young at Auschwitz or Dachau, or whichever camp this inhumanity was carried out, when the tattoo was cut into his arm; and as he grew, the blue-black numbers became distorted.
He was a warm, gentle man, a mentor to many of the young people who came to the encampment to learn about humanity and justice, and what we might do to make the world better. Spetter never said anything about the numbers on his arm, or about his experiences in those Nazi camps of unspeakable horror. Instead, he helped us envision a bright and hopeful future in a better world, if we would strive to make it happen.
His unspoken message was that, personally, you must put the past behind you, no matter how painful. You can never forget, but you must look to the future with hope for a better world and determination to make it so.
The chains of victimhood keep many of our tribal people imprisoned in the depths of dependency, complaining about the wrongs that were done to our ancestors, and using those wrongs as excuses for our inability or unwillingness to progress. And many of our teachers, scholars and journalists make excuses for our condition, and validate societal dysfunction and failure as normal because of the history of our treatment at the hands of white America.
Our tribes have a long, proud history of survival, and we must bring forth that pride in our ongoing fight for a better life we make for ourselves. Sovereignty itself presumes and proclaims superiority. We must not prefer the inferiority that we press upon ourselves when we wallow in victimhood and see ourselves as hopeless people, forever haunted by the self-fulfilling theories of multigenerational trauma.
We cannot sacrifice one more generation to failure.
Charles E. Trimble, Oglala Lakota, was principal founder of the American Indian Press Association in 1970 and served as executive director of the National Congress of American Indians from 1972 – 78. He is president of Red Willow Institute in Omaha, Neb., and a columnist for Indian Country Today. E-mail him at cchuktrim@aol.com.
Tuesday, Nov 17 at 9:18 AM quinaultbob wrote ...
the foundation of wealth is ownership of land...The BIA still holds title to all Indian Land in Trust... Give us back title to land we RETAINED in our treaty and we can move forward. Yes our people were devestated by consecration camps called boarding schools no different than the palistinians and jews in the middle east. Th
32232576 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Friday, Nov 6 at 9:25 AM Two cultures in One world wrote ...
Many of these comments sadden me to know that the human race comes second to all others. I am an African American and Native American woman who has to listen to the pain of both sides of my cultures who seem to be torn because of the past. Everyone who lives on this earth has experienced hardships and inhumane situations, but the best thing is to teach your children about where they come from and what their destiny could hold if they are taught to love throught their pain and become successful
31687724 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Nov 5 at 8:16 PM Anonymous wrote ...
Boo-hoo hoo Stop whining you bunch of losers. Get off your duff and make things better for yourself and your people. No one is feeling sorry for you, not in this time and age.Your victim hood is used as an excuse not try and put up road blocks ahead of yourselves. Get educated and create something do not rely on government handouts, that's the problem, become selfreliant, self sufficient and stop making excuses, or you can whine around about something that happened a long time ago,its yourchoice
31667711 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Nov 3 at 1:42 PM WhatAboutCivilRight? wrote ...
The chains of victimization will only be broken when people on the rez have the same protection under the law as folks off the rez. Dysfunction is constantly refueld by the criminals who hide behind Tribal Sovereign Immunity.
31525176 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Oct 27 at 9:06 PM Anonymous wrote ...
and it's so much better to teach your own children "how to be indian" as you are raping or abusing them because you can't or won't work past the hurts you went through...it's time to stop the abuse and find a more constructive way...
31198543 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Wednesday, Oct 7 at 7:25 AM cecil wrote ...
Not impressed. 30 years later you get a "revelation" and confess that you have presenting an inappropriate way to satisfy the needs of the red people. I'm sure you also, must know how many young and old that you affected (negatively) with you poor insight to negotiate. Writing colummn and preaching to choir is pretty weak.
30238054 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Sep 29 at 6:06 PM ALJinMT wrote ...
Well written and this explains the sentiments of many TRULY 'progressive' Indians, especially the young ones who aren't using the fact that they are Native as an excuse for failure.
29869487 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Saturday, Sep 26 at 10:59 AM Tracking Wolfie wrote ...
Judge Naidu, Well said and I hope I understand you right.
29707857 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Monday, Aug 31 at 11:04 AM Chuck Trimble wrote ...
In the article, Sam Deloria is telling the professors of college Indian studies to "get over it," that is, get over imposing on the young Indian students that they are victims, and implying that they aren't real Indians if they don't suffer trauma or resent their history. Read it again. Nobody is questioning whether intergenerational trauma exists, just that it should not be spread to new generations by (even-justifiably) resentful adults. That is it seemwhat makes the trauma intergenerational.
28523207 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Sunday, Aug 30 at 4:03 PM Anonymous wrote ...
Sam Deloria is from a great family but his statement of people should "Get over the trauma" of the residential schools is an asinine comment. That's like telling a victim of rape to 'get over it'. Especially if he doesn't understand the experience of being in the schools. Maybe the Jews should forget all their experiences of anti-semitism also.
28488027 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Aug 20 at 2:15 PM Judge Naidu wrote ...
The victim can beome the victor if proper planning and strategizing were to occasion.We have sufficient constitutional arrows in our quiver to fight this out globally with the world's indigenous peoples. About time we organized a United Nations of Indigenous Peoples. But the burning question is : CAN BE UNITE AS ONE VOICE LOCALLY.....
28024956 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Aug 18 at 7:29 PM Circular 1665 wrote ...
Given the fact that we are forced to live in a world that thrives on values that are the complete opposite of what our traditional values are it’s completely unfair to simply say "get over it." How can a culture reinvent itself in just a few generations? It’s sad that many Indian people, including many leaders, believe that the only way for tribes to survive is to abandon what makes us who we are in the name of "progress."
27934492 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Jul 9 at 9:38 AM TrackingWolfie wrote ...
Change propir to people change tird to tied
25694269 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Jul 9 at 9:36 AM TrackingWolfie wrote ...
injustices imposed upon us and the many treaties not ratified and the many treaties that were simply broken. So we continue to beg and argue our points and still nothing. Why don't we re-think this whole situation rather than a continuation of talk that is ambiguous and is as empty as the wind. Come together proplr put away your hatred of other Cherokees and let them in after all we are tird by blood. A really deep study of what I am saying could result in a positive direction. Think Think!
25694067 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Jul 9 at 9:30 AM TRackingWolfie wrote ...
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25693552 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Jul 9 at 9:28 AM TrackingWolfie wrote ...
AS a Cherokee on the ouside looking in I wonfer how much more powerful we would be if the freedman act was apssed and all other Cherokees could be recognized too. Seems like you are always fighting this white power structure that caves in on you time in time out. Never seems to get better. Columbus killed millions of us yet we have a day named after him. National Holiday I think, Remember thise small pox blankets now where did that happen. Who gave the order. We can't discount the many next
25693392 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Jul 7 at 6:34 AM sarge6768 wrote ...
As I read some of the above comments I couldn't help but think that many of you exemplify exactly what mr. Trimble is saying. Your hatred, your ignorance of the facts is incredible. You forget that there is enough blame to go around on both side. There were traitorous Indians that sold their people down the river. Yet there were also whites who put their lives and careers on the line to help Indians. It's not so black and white and some may think it is.
25525839 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Wednesday, Jul 1 at 3:21 PM CurtJ wrote ...
In order for Native Americans to let go of victimhood, is for the Europeans and American governments to acknowledge that their policies of Colonialism led to the enslavement, rape, slaughter and genocide of Native Americans. Only after they acknowledge these facts, can we move ahead. Do they realize their polices of Colonialism is Theft and Murder and leads to Terrorism? The Neo Con Parasites will never admit that because to do so, they will have to admit they are guilty of Theft and Murder
25263369 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Saturday, Jun 27 at 9:47 PM CurtJ wrote ...
Wake up and smell the coffee. How many times had the Judicial System ruled in favor of the Natives in the last 20 years? How much is being stolen from Natives from the Trust lands issue? Up to 154-200 billion dollars! What else to forget? We celebrate Columbus Day for a mass murderer who died of Syphillis. We celebrate Thanksgiving Day for the same Pilgrims who murdered their Native saviors 3 years after their first Thanksgiving. What else? Nuclear storage on Native lands? Uranium mines?
25077827 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Jun 23 at 3:41 PM LiveToday wrote ...
Many people have been abused. Do we choose to dwell on heartache? Do we choose to allow those who abused us to continue the abuse by our choosing, to carry their hate with us to destroy our future. Lay it aside. Find the most glorious memories of the past and the most beatiful dreams of the future to guide us.
24514367 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Jun 18 at 1:41 PM ahs wrote ...
'Moving beyond' does not equate forgetting about our past. It means learning from the past. Mr. Trimble is suggesting that we don't allow the past to consume us. We can heal ourselves and move ourselves forward: it isn't up to the dominant society.
24060192 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Wednesday, Jun 3 at 10:51 AM Lazy Wolf wrote ...
Are we victims or survivors? I would say both, as victims, we should learn from what has happen to us so that it does not continue to happen to us. We are the only ones that can change the next outcome. As survivors, we need to prepare as well as we can to deal with the contemporary issues that we have to deal with. We have been marked for annihilation, just as the Jews were before world war 2. How does one prepare to deal with something of this magnitude. Have any suggestions, anyone?
23152977 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, May 21 at 10:08 AM Nanu wrote ...
History is being re-written. Our people, those who have let got of the role of victim and move forward anyway, are making changes. These are slow, but they are happening. The truth is coming out. Inter-generational trauma, historical trauma nor PTSD are not effects that we can ignore and pretend never happened, but the healing is ours to do. We are responsible for our own thoughts, feelings and behavior. We may not have had a hand in what happened to us, but we do in what we will do about it.
21971194 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Friday, Apr 24 at 8:50 AM Always as Indian wrote ...
Claudette dear, this isn't about me.... Nor peace, love, and harmony. It is federal government and its impact. Dig?
20161696 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Apr 23 at 2:17 PM Claudette wrote ...
Everyone has a right to their own opinion. Their lives are a reflection of that. What does your reflection show you?
20127496 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Apr 23 at 2:07 AM Always as Indian wrote ...
Mr. Trimble, thank you for writing such an opposing self-centered piece. Maybe someday when you become accountable to your own people, if you are Indian, they will instruct you on what it is to live through that time when livelihoods were taken away using government policy. Do not assume your garbage speaks for us all.
20093926 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Thursday, Apr 2 at 9:55 AM Anonymous wrote ...
Wow. Such hate for all the "white eyes." It is an unfair stereotype to all. What about the people that have just moved to the United States from other countires. They did not hurt the Native Americans in any way; yet they too have to pay for what has been done centuries ago? I know none of my ancestors did anything to the Native Americans because I am a decendant from them myself. So why don't I get the "tribla benefits" that they do. Why is it the "you owe us card" always has to be played.
18987531 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Friday, Mar 6 at 1:33 PM Anonymous wrote ...
What an onversimplification of the problems in Indian Country. I hope you are not allowed to spread your diseased thinking to the young generations. We need real, wise & compassionate leaders who are able to understand our issues in a historical context, not Judas-goat sellouts who think white and tell us to "get over it" (you have all the answers---tell me, how do we get over genocide?) like its nothing more than a pimple.
17630432 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Friday, Mar 6 at 1:27 PM Sikak Iskwew wrote ...
Tansi, I wish I had something good to say about Mr. Trimble's opinion, but I do not. In what world does Mr. Tribmle presume to not only speak for all NDGNS nations, but to claim a mentality of "victimhood" for us all? His attitude is the mirror image of the white racist mentality that also accuses my Indigenous relatives of consciously choosing a "victim mentality"...but when white people do it they say: pull youself up by your bootstraps and quit complaining about the past. Shame on you.
17630012 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Friday, Mar 6 at 5:03 AM Nochegahneh wrote ...
Mr. Trimble is absolutely correct. Are we victims of a racist Indian policy of genocide? Absolutely. Should we ever forget? Never. Should we stop fighting to change this policy? Never. So what is the best way to protect ourselves and the next seven generations? Look in the mirror my brothers and sisters. As the wise old Cree elder once said, "I grow afraid when I hear it said that I as one man can do nothing. We know the story about the man who sat beside the trail to long and it grew over him."
17608296 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Wednesday, Feb 18 at 1:25 AM Wanbli wrote ...
First if you really are sencere of getting the people past their victimhood, then you must agree, that their must of been at one time or now, a victimizer. And, if the victimizer isn't gone, then before one or a community can get over their victimhood, then you need to remove the victimizer. So, maybe all of you need to do just that, if you really honest and love your people. Remove, the BIA and IRA brueacracy and then you will have truely, helped the nation's get over their victimhood.
16681407 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Monday, Dec 15 at 4:43 PM ska wrote ...
You see wisely, Mr. Trimble. Anytime a human thinks of himself as a smaller part of something bigger, he has sold his soul. I lived in Pine Ridge and what it needs is a change of attitude. The hate and abuse there is a cancer to the people themselves.
13645409 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Dec 9 at 12:30 PM NegwayyabinoEquay wrote ...
I have been voicing, mostly to friends, that in order to get progressive we must "Get past the past". The imposition of anothers language and religion, we know all about that already. We need to use the education system to our advantage, we only need to attend and get everything we can from it. Beat them at thier own game, as it were. Peace to All.
13362588 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Dec 2 at 10:29 AM Onigeahyoh wrote ...
I see Trimble's point that over focusing on historical trauma produces a dark cloud of "victimhood". Certainly, our history is full of more great deeds peformed by heroic communities and people in the face of evil atrocities, that have produced more than just "victim" survival. Yet, it is often hard to see through the fog of survival when our six senses tell us we are still in the mist of oppression. We are tasked to build strong nations in spite of unfaded and unrecognized tattoos on our arms.
13030679 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Sunday, Nov 30 at 6:53 PM ljNpurgatory wrote ...
I don't get around much I guess--must've been outback working extra hours when it came into vogue to criticize one trying to enlighten others on what they feel is dysfunctional about many Indian communities. I know working for the Tribe is unlike any mainstream job for reasons cited so there's no sympathy lost on those who enjoy their victimhood. My hope is for the younger generations--if they can beat drugs, casino greed, college, war, etc. and the next round of termination policies.
12965758 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Wednesday, Nov 26 at 5:03 PM Principal Man for Foriegn Affairs wrote ...
Awful knowledge of the truth is when the truth is of no help. America's moral ascendancy is in decline and I am more than willing to drive it into the ground if it lifts my people up. We are the continuing victim of US nuclear weapons testing and nuclear waste that will live on far longer than imperial America. Feel guilt and be ashamed for the to profit the white man reaps as he rapes. His greatest weapon is your belief that he will not violate and abuse the innocent, weak, vulnerable and naive
12855553 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Tuesday, Nov 25 at 1:02 PM cb wrote ...
I wonder if he would tell the Jews the same thing?!
12794108 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Monday, Oct 20 at 3:21 PM Wambli wrote ...
It's so hilarious to see hang around the fort Indians call themselves Republicans in these darken days. Can anyone see the contradictions of their own convictions, within these prestigious so-called leaders. Colonized in their thinking, imprisoned in their thoughts, enslave in their illusion of the white nationalism. What a shame, what a lost for the next generations that shall lead all First Nation's by the Spirit of Truth and Justice, despite, the real casualties of an unjust order.
9452674 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Monday, Oct 20 at 2:12 PM Republican Native wrote ...
I agree with Mr. Trimble. I don’t understand the continued ignorance of “Indians” from the rez that think they have the right to continue the “poor me” song. Pray, go to school, stop acting like the Gangster, the Jamaican, and the rebel; adopt our country and work together to make your rez a happy, beautiful place like it used to be. Honor the elders, don’t ignore them. Ask about their grandparents stories; strive to get back the wonderful days where everyone worked together – educated Lakota
9448999 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Monday, Oct 20 at 9:36 AM Wambli wrote ...
When a First Nation's is being victimized by the American Empire. He is a victim. As I am and millions others of my own are victim of Americanism. I heard many old white men call themself Tetuwan but that don't make them Tetuwan because Tetuwan are not stupid. And back here on the Ridge Trimble's are not Lakota and not the voice for the People. What in truth, has NCAI has done for the People? Nothing! Why? Because they have become the colonized, sanitized, poster child for the oppressor.
9434794 Inappropriate? Alert Us!Sunday, Sep 28 at 3:54 PM onefeather1 wrote ...
FIRST AMERICANS,I WOULD LOVE TO SEE OUR PEOPLE COME OUT OF EXILE,LIVE ON,PRETEND NOTHING NEVER HAPPENED,EVERYTHING WAS ON THE UP AND UP.WHILE WE,RE AT IT, LETS JUST SAY,THEY NEVER CURSIFIED JESUS.LETS JUST SAY WHITE EYES FOUND THIS LAND VACAN.HOWS THAT,NOW LETS START OVER,YOU CAN START BY REWRITHING HISTORY,HOW WILL YOU START YOUR FIRST SENTENCE.TRY THIS,IT NEVER HAPPENED.GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE,IF YOU WANT TO WRITE SOMETHING START WITH THE TRUTH.DAME RIGHT,I,M INDIAN,I WORK,I PRAY AND DANCE.
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